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Dr. Gary Smalley in his book The Key to Your Child’s Heart relates the following:

“Several years ago, I used to speak to groups of four hundred to two thousand people in fifty cities annually. I began to notice that certain families in the audiences experienced unusually happy interaction among themselves. I was intrigued by this and began to do a study. I would interview the wife, husband and children separately.

Each person was asked the same question: ‘What do you believe is the main reason you all are so close and happy as a family?’

What I found amazed me. Each family member gave basically the same answer:

We do a lot of things together.’”

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